Saturday, April 11, 2009

A Visit from the Tonsil Fairy

So, for those of you who didn't happen to check the blog within the past 24 hours, you'll want to scroll down and read my previous post first. Of course, I know most of my readers feverishly check this thing every half hour around the clock, despite no activity in the past month . . .

Anyway, right before Christmastime, Connor caught a cold. No big deal, right? Except a few days later, his ears plugged up and he couldn't hear me very well. I figured it would pass in a few days, but it didn't. So, the day before New Year's Eve, I took him downtown to his pediatrician to see if he had an ear infection or something. The doctor pretty much asked Connor a few questions, then said, "He can hear me just fine! He's okay." And sent us home with a bill. I wasn't very happy about such a cursory examination, but I figured I had just been imagining things - either that, or it was something mild that would go away on its own soon anyway.

Well, two months later, he still wasn't hearing things well. His teachers at Joy School noticed it, too, so it wasn't just me being paranoid. Besides general ignoring of our non-shouted requests, I'd try to tell him stories at bedtime without waking up his sister, and he'd yell, "What? I can't hear you!" He couldn't hear whispers at church, either, which was awkward. So, I decided to try a different pediatrician, one closer to our new house. This doctor was great. He dug all the wax out of Connor's ears, looked at the eardrums, and informed me that they were both completely full of fluid. We spent almost an hour talking about Connor's ears, as well as concerns I've had about his tonsils. Connor snores like crazy at night, and he mouth breathes all day, which leads to a lot of slobbering. The doctor was worried that Connor wasn't sleeping deeply enough because of such an obstructed airway, and that was why he sometimes seemed so tired, even after a full night of sleep. They did a quick hearing test, and told us to come back in a month (Connor's regular checkup date, anyway) to see if anything had improved. In March things hadn't improved with the ears, so we were referred to an ear nose and throat doctor. To make an already long story short, we saw two - one in Provo and one in Glendale - and they both said to get rid of his tonsils and stick tubes in his ears for drainage.

So, that brings us to Thursday morning. Ryan took the day off, and we went down to Children's Hospital in Hollywood around 10am, and eventually found where we were supposed to be.This hospital is amazing. They have huge play areas, and volunteer readers on the main floor who read books to the kids and give them free ones to take with them. The smaller waiting room in the outpatient surgery area had a separate "playroom" next door filled with tons of high-quality toys, videogames, and videos. At first, there were quite a few other small children in there, but, since the surgery scheduler puts youngest kids first, Connor was one of the last to have his "turn". There was a really sweet lady whose job was to talk to each child about their surgery and what they'd see before and after. She brought a kit full of sample equipment to show Connor, with stuff like an IV, anaesthetic masks, doctor's hats and masks, and blood pressure cuffs. All he had to do to be put under was breathe anaesthetic gas, so there were no shots or pokes until he was asleep. They even had him drink a sedative about a half-hour before he went in to help the separation from parents be less stressful, but I don't think it affected him much. He was climbing all over the pre-op bed and jumping around like a nut until they wheeled him away to the OR (he's only pretending to sleep in this picture).

He thought it was pretty cool that his bed had wheels, and let them roll him away very cheerfully. Then we were taken into the parents' OR waiting room, and instructed that one parent had to remain there at all times. We had about an hour, so Ryan (who had eaten earlier with Elise) brought me up a salad from the cafeteria, and we spent the time eating, watching TV and chatting with one of the other families who was there for tonsils and ear tubes.

I had assumed all the kids were there for the same doctor and surgery, but I was wrong. Towards the end of our wait, I (through eavesdropping, of course) learned that two of the little ones we had seen earlier were there for something called retinal blastoma. It's a cancer that can develop in the eye, and affects kids from birth to about age three. I guess Children's Hospital is a world leader in treating it. So, so sad. Those families have been in my prayers since Thursday.

When the nurse took us into the recovery room, Connor was half-awake and wrestling with a recovery nurse, trying to rip his IV out and crawl out of bed. He was crying and coughing alot. It was pitiful to look at. I went over and held him in my lap with a blanket and did my best to comfort him. The nurses told me they all pretty much act like that when first coming out of the anaesthetic, and that he'd fall asleep again soon, which he eventually did. The doctor came to talk to me, and said that his adenoids were in even worse shape than his tonsils, so they were removed, too (which we expected.) We were in recovery about 2 hours, then were allowed to get him dressed and take him home. Elise was so, so good the whole day - except when we put Connor in HER stroller, at which point she started wailing louder than any patient in the room. The nurses rushed over to check on us, and thought it was kind of funny. Funny and loud.

Since then, Connor hasn't really wanted to take his medicine or drink or eat anything, and I guess I can't blame him. We still have to make him do it, though, and he doesn't appreciate that. But, he can hear us! And he's been keeping his lips closed to keep his un-swallowed spit from running down his chin, breathing through his nose in the process. So, all in all, a success!

A couple days before Connor's surgery, I finally made the family growth chart I've been meaning to do since October. The plan is to take pictures of the kids each time I measure them, and glue them around the border as they grow. I think my kids are pretty dang cute.

Friday, April 10, 2009

Update

Hey, people. As some of you may know, Connor had his tonsils removed yesterday, along with his adenoids, and had tubes put in his ears. Everything went really well, although he is not a happy camper right now. I'll fill you in on that tomorrow (hopefully). First, I'm obligated to catch up to the present.


1. Deer in the Backyard. Yeah, I know this is boring for most of you, but for us it was a treat to see these deer in our backyard one Saturday morning. They only come this far down when it's foggy or rainy (or possibly dark, I'm not sure).
2. Random Cute Pictures. Note Connor's enormous tonsils. Poor kid could hardly breathe!
3. Connor's Birthday! Connor had a great time, even though he was kind of sick, as usual. He got a chocolate cake from Porto's, a butterfly garden (still haven't sent for the caterpillars yet), a wooden toy parking garage, and a bunch of cool videos, toys, and cards from family and friends. Oh, and a new kitchen chair with a footrest so his legs won't keep falling asleep at meals. We also had a casual birthday party for him about a week later, and most of his favorite buddies were able to make it with their families. I meant to take pictures of the party, but I was too busy hosting and getting packed for our same-day departure to Utah.
4. Utah Trip. We hitched a ride up with my mom in her RV as she was returning from a San Diego dog show, and were able to spend about two weeks with family. This was (supposedly) also a chance for Ryan to study for the CFA without us distracting him. Kelli made Connor this amazing giant Winnie the Pooh for his birthday. He liked it, but not as much as Elise did. I think it's officially hers by now. Thank you, Kelli! It was fun, although the kids (especially Connor) were sick nearly the whole visit, and my poor mom caught it from them the second week. We didn't want to give it to Grandma Cloe, so we only got to visit her during the last 3-4 days of the trip. Connor was very worried that he'd get her sick, and almost refused to go inside the first time, it was sweet. We made sure to use alot of tissues and hand sanitizer, and as far as I know, Grandma Cloe was spared the plague. We were kind of hoping to see some snow, but I didn't mind the warm weather that much. We were able to take the sick kids to the park. Why not share the germs with random neighborhood children, eh? (Seriously, though, we tried to find a park that was empty!) We also had a great visit with Uncle Kevin. Elise was scared of him at first, but then she's always scared of everyone for the first 15 minutes. By the end of the evening, Connor and Elise were giggling and "hiding" under the couch blanket, then terrifying poor Kevin with their ambushes.I could kick myself for not getting a picture of Kyle up close. He and Kevin are competing in a "Samson Challenge" with one another. Kyle's ahead on the viking beard, but Kevin has about three times the hair. I'm not sure when the winner will be officially determined, but our mom hopes it's soon.

Wednesday, March 4, 2009

Sesame Street Presents . . The Body!

Hi again! It seems I forgot I had a blog for a while, there. Sorry about that.

Over the weekend of Presidents' Day, we saw an ad online for something called Sesame Street Presents: The Body. It's a temporary kids' exhibit at the mall down by Hollywood and Vine. Now, some of you may know that Connor has been obsessed for months and months with anything "body" related. He loves anatomy stuff for some reason (he even enjoyed the Bodyworlds exhibit we took him to in Salt Lake.) So, of course we had to take the kids to this thing in Hollywood. It didn't look like much, at first, but we were able to spend several hours there. Here's Connor goofing off near the fountain outside.Inside, Elise was confused that Oscar's delicious looking trash wouldn't come off.When we put Elise in the playground area, she climbed onto this slide and just sat, looking depressed, for about ten minutes. We offered to get her down, but she wanted to stay there and just watch the other kids. My favorite part of this exhibit was definitely the "Organ Organ". It had pictures of various internal organs on the keys, and when you pushed one, a very operatic muppet voice would sing, "Paaancreeeeeeaas . . . ", then you'd be treated to an upbeat little song (also wonderfully muppety) about what the pancreas do for you. They had a little store where kids could pretend to shop and buy healthy foods, and after that we were treated to a photo op with Elmo. Connor was jazzed. Elise was . . . a good sport, I guess. On the way out, we got Connor this t-shirt with muppet organs all over the front of it. Each organ has it's own little pair of googly eyes. Then we went to find something for lunch, and in the process wandered around Hollywood and Vine a little bit. For those of you unfamiliar with the area, this is ground zero for Hollywood tourism. During holidays or weekends, you always see a bunch of weirdos dressed up as movie characters standing around on the sidewalks, charging tourists for a photo op. We usually try not to encourage these people, but this time Connor and Ryan saw something they couldn't resist. This balloon sculpture cost us a buck, and the only reason we bought it was because the vendor "accidentally" dropped a bunch of them next to Connor in passing. Connor grabbed one off the ground, of course, and we were informed of the "suggested donation". Pretty smooth, I have to admit.So, that was our trip to Hollywood. Here are a few random pictures that didn't fit anywhere else - Connor and Elise in the rain, Connor being bad (climbing up to the top of his closet to get out the forbidden ball toys), and Connor and Dad bonding over a Zelda DS game.